To be around when no one else is, is the ultimate test of friendship. Be someone your friends can trust.
You seem to always find something wrong with your partner these days. Try focusing on their more positive traits for a change.
Ordering around your subordinates will not earn their respect. They already know you’re the boss. What you need to do is to show them you’re someone they can look up to.
Paying attention to details will be somewhat difficult to do given the number of tasks you have to accomplish. Try not to trouble yourself with the nitty gritty.