Daydreaming can result in ideas. Don’t dismiss them as useless musings of the mind.
Take a minute to evaluate where your relationship is going then consult with your partner if they see it the same way.
The most important thing is that you’re trying your best. If it’s not good enough, either you’re in the wrong job or you’re lying about your best.
Some limits, like rules, were made to be challenged and exceeded. They are not absolute.